I know it’s rude to drop a bomb like that — saying “Oh yeah, by the way, I found my biodad through Facebook, and I just spoke with him for the first time ever,” and then taking forever to follow up. But honestly: it’s a longish story and kinda weird (like everything else in my adoption/discovery process), and with all the wassailing going on, I just haven’t had the time/energy/focus to write it down. Soon.